What am I to Do

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Many even sail through life effortlessly only to realize that their life could have been more meaningful. Nothing hurts more than finding out what all possibilities and opportunities you missed. For example, maybe you’ve decided that you really want a career that allows you to enjoy the great outdoors. You might create steps like this to achieve that goal:

The key is to find out what your purpose is, and use that to guide you as you figure out what to do with your life. This should be in your priority list if you really wish to have some quality stuff with your boyfriend. Keep yourself screen free, away from social media for a few hours in the day and engage in some interesting conversations.

How to Answer the Question – What Am I Doing with My Life?

Half of our lives we behave like animals. Sleeping, feeding, drinking, pursuing sex and other bodily necessities, we do exactly what baboons, monkeys, and other animals do. Most of the rest of our available time is spend doing what the societies we live in want us to do, namely work to earn enough to pay for those necessities. The little time left over which we could call ‘time out’ is scarcely enough to keep up with what happens in the world around us, if we even are interested. You can write all the good qualities about your spouse. Then d=show this to him/her and see their reaction. It’s a good way to appreciate their contribution in your life. 64. Plan for a weekend getaway Then, there’s Max*. Incredibly smart, fun and motivated, Max had successfully climbed up through his career ladder and was happily married with his first child. Life was good. Pretend you’re at a party where people with the same interests are gathered in the same corner of the room, and that’s true for all six corners.

After figuring out what you love doing, do more of it. 2. What are my greatest accomplishments in life so far? Advising you to just trust that the dots will connect later isn’t exactly helpful, though. It certainly won’t help sort out your career path or relieve any anxiety. I prayed for this fairy godmother to drop down out of Silicon Valley and into my inbox with a complete roadmap for my life. Coffee shops are the best place to freak out with your girlfriend. You people can engage in some quality conversations and can even plan for your future lives together. A great way to know each other well before the relationship moves into deeper levels of friendship and intimacy. 44. Take a dance class together Most of us have no clue what we want to do with our lives. Even after we finish school. Even after we get a job. Even after we’re making money. Between ages 18 and 25, I changed career aspirations more often than I changed my underwear. And even after I had a business, it took another four years to clearly define what I wanted for my life.You can have some paper pencil games to play with your family members and have some great fun together. The simple examples are noughts and crosses, battleships, crosswords, search the word, and other old classics. 77. Draw and paint Things I can do immediately (Examples: Master your chocolate chip cookie recipe, spend more time with your mom) Both of you can spend an afternoon by watching a favorite movie that neither of you have seen before. You can relax with some hot brews and popcorn and enjoy each other’s company. 36. Have a gadget-free time

I am where I am today because I tied my skills with my interests, and voila, out popped a phenomenal career that I enjoy waking up for each day. It also helped that I trusted that the dots would connect in the future. Make a list of people whom you look up to. These can be people you know—parents, friends, colleagues, etc.—or they can be people you’ve never met, like social justice advocates, celebrities, or politicians. In her soul searching, Sabine identified that she needed to find and surround herself with her “people,” uncovered what she needed to feel safe and secure, learned she needed to delegate more, and discovered that her direct approach was getting in her way.When people feel like they have no sense of direction, no purpose in their life, it’s because they don’t know what’s important to them, they don’t know what their values are. While your journey in life will be completely unique, hearing from people who have done what you want to do can guide you as you carve your own path. You can arrange a sunset picnic and outdoor play at a nearby park. Children will get a good dose of physical exercise coupled with family time can create wonderful memories to cherish for a lifetime. 90. Have a pillow fight How does this translate to your everyday life? If you’re changing career fields and aren’t sure what to switch over to, limit your options to five or six possible areas. Choose to mark one off the list every few days once you’ve sat with the choices a bit. As your brain focuses on fewer and fewer choices, it will become easier to figure out what to do with your life 3. Take Small Steps With a 30-Day Challenge

Then, armed with information and an idea of the next best option for you, it’s time to move on to the next question. Step 5: What’s Stopping You? Instead of being reactive to it, it can help to just attend to what’s going on inside. Listen to your emotions and what they’re saying; sit with them without judging or rushing to conclusions. I’m a crowd, so I’m a ‘what’. There isn’t an ‘I’. As psychosynthesis says, I’m a collection of sub-personalities. More accurately, this thing is a collection of personalities, some shy, some noisy, pushy, sexy, boring, clever. This is the Many Selves model. The Gestalt view is similar: I/This is the continuous interaction and interrelatedness between myself and the environment of others and objects. Except on this theory there isn’t a ‘myself’ at the core, this I-ness is the constant flux. Even when alone, eyes closed in silence, there’s the flux of sensations and thoughts (coming from where?) In the Many Selves model all these Selves are interrelated, actors with a script they write as the play proceeds, with more parts than actors, so multiple roles are played. The problem is that, mostly we want to believe there is a core self or single I inside the sensations, so we can reinforce our Self Concept: “I am the sort of person who…” A fragmented self-concept is emotionally distressing. To move forward, you have to let go of your past and embrace change. With change comes reinvention. If you don’t know who you are and what you want, it makes it a lot harder to move forward in your life.

Final Thoughts

Long drives with soothing music buzzing in the ears can make a memorable day. It is also a wonderful date night idea to work on. 35. Watch a movie together If your reasons are something like, “I can’t start a business because spending time with my kids is more important to me,” or “Playing Starcraft all day would probably interfere with my music, and music is more important to me,” then OK. Sounds good. Throw a small lunch or get together with old pals in a quiet and shady spot away from the city chaos. A slight change in daily routine makes life. 16. Get ice cream sundaes and pamper your taste buds